If you know, you know.
Tri-State Swingers is a lifestyle community for couples and select singles in Arizona, Nevada and California. We host dinners, weekend galas and house parties, and nobody is ever expected to do anything.
Adults 21 and over only.
The three rules behind every event
No requirements.
Taking part in any activity is always optional. Come for dinner and leave after dessert if that is your night.
No expectations.
Nobody is pressured to participate or to perform, at any event, by anyone.
No exceptions.
These rules apply to every guest and every host, every time.
Four kinds of events, from two hours to four days
Start with whichever suits you. Most new members begin with a munch, then decide whether a longer event is for them.
Munch
An evening meet-up for couples who are curious and want to meet the group first.
About 2 hours
Register for a munchProgressive Munch
Our signature night: dinner, then drinks and dancing at a second venue, with private rooms reserved nearby.
Overnight
About the Progressive MunchLarge events
Multi-night parties. Cinco de Mayo Weekend in Laughlin, the Halloween Gala, and a four-day Kingman hotel takeover coming in 2027.
2 to 4 days
About large eventsHouse parties
Members open their homes to the group. Each host sets the theme.
Varies by host
About house partiesHow a Progressive Munch runs
The night moves from one place to the next, and you can stop at any point.
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Dinner
The evening starts with a relaxed dinner to catch up with friends and meet new people.
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Drinks and dancing
The group moves to a second venue for cocktails, music and dancing.
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The token
Each woman is given a token at the start of the night. She alone decides whether a single man is invited to the after-party.
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Private rooms
Rooms are reserved nearby for anyone who wants them. Nobody has to.
The Forbidden Halloween Gala and VIP Weekend
Thursday, October 29 to Sunday, November 1, 2026, at the Tropicana in Laughlin, Nevada.
The weekend, day by day
- ThursdayEarly check-in and a meet-and-greet. VIP Weekend guests.
- FridayContest events and the hospitality suite party. VIP Weekend guests.
- SaturdayThe Gala, 6:00 to 10:00 PM, with a DJ, a costume contest with $1,000 in cash prizes, and prize drawings. The VIP After Party runs 10:30 PM to 3:00 AM.
- SundayCheckout.
Costumes are required at the Gala and masks are prohibited. All guests must be 21 or older. Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.
Tickets
| Package | Couple | Single male | Single female |
|---|---|---|---|
| VIP Weekend | $150 | $150 | $100 |
| Gala only | $50 | $50 | $30 |
The Tropicana room block closes Thursday, October 15.
Group code S10HAL6
Also on the calendar
The New Years' CelebrationFour days and three nights to close out 2026 and ring in 2027.
All upcoming eventsMunches, weekends and house parties as they are announced.
Apply to join
- Send the application. It takes about two minutes.
- A member of the leadership team reaches out to you. Every applicant hears from a person.
- Register for events. Once you are in, sign up for whatever suits you.
The group started in April 2025 as a small monthly meetup called the Progressive Munch and grew from there. It began in California, Nevada and Arizona and now includes Utah, Colorado and New Mexico.
Group rules, in short
Consent is non-negotiable
No means no. Consent must be obtained for any interaction, online or in person, and an earlier yes never implies a later one.
Confidentiality and discretion
Member identities, group discussions and event details stay private.
Ask before you message
In the group chat, ask and get consent in the public page before sending anyone a private message.
No recording
No photos, videos or recordings without explicit consent from all involved.
New to the lifestyle?
Articles written by the Tri-State Swingers administration team to help people in their journey.